Tuesday, December 28, 2010
She is engaged, but I am in love with her. I have never told her.?
She is engaged, but I am in love with her. I have never told her.?
Im in love with a girl who I now for 1 year, but I have not told her yet. She came from China to London when I was studying there and already had an american boyfriend (which she did not like) studying in London . I relocated to Scotland for a first class job and we are in touch by phone. I recently have heard from one of my friends, who live in London, that she is now engaged with her initial boyfriend. But she did not tell me when talking on phone. I never asked about it yet. I am now stable in Scotland and am in a position to tell her I love her. The thing is that she never talk about her boyfriend (or being engaged) when chating with me on the phone. Yesterday she sent me her CV to look for job for her in Scotland. I never have told her how much I love her and care for her because i did not want to make her confused. She had boyfriend all the time, and complained about him and his old fashion family back in HongKong. Last year she told me if she go with her boyfriend to HongKong she is never happy because his family treat her as a slave. She has to leave UK for good in 6 months because her student visa expires. Why she does not tell me that she is engaged? What shall I do? Is there still any hope? Im going to London next week for a short business trip.
Singles & Dating - 8 Answers
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1 :
Tell her what's up. What's the worse that happens? She should know how you feel
2 :
you should let her know how you feel
3 :
You know her better than any of us could know. If you think you'll hurt her or confuse her or screw her up by telling her which could very well happen DON'T- it is selfish. But if you don't... then tell her.
4 :
tell her now, dont wait until the wedding or after the wedding
5 :
you got to tell her~ you may never get this chance again.
6 :
I'm not being mean just serious here..... She didn't tell you cause she is a S L U T .... Stop being a home wrecker get some respect for your self and stop trying to go after some other guys girl. Would you really want a girl like that?.....Who uses people they are NOT in love with and tells them they ARE? What goes around comes around. It's called karma...... Go find a nice honest and single girl. That's what you should do. There is also a good chance she will be talking to other guys on the phone while she is with you..... 2nd chances never matter people never change.
7 :
tell her how you feel you never know what might happen which might be what she is waiting for. you dont want to go living thinking what could have been.....right tell her
8 :
If I were you I would let her know remember she isn't married yet! maybe things will go your way when she finds out. http://globalsky.com
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