Friday, January 7, 2011

Should i feel bad if i like my bf talk dirty before/during sex?


Should i feel bad if i like my bf talk dirty before/during sex?
when he talk really dirty he always check me and tell me that i'm REALLY wet. should i feel bad? i can't control what my body does. should i feel i'm a slut because i know it's a bad word for girls and i don't want to be one? he call me all kind of bad names i don't know if he really think i'm that way in real life or he just say it to make me really wet and have the sex. i'm confused. there is something else. he gives me money almost every time we meet(even the first time he invited me to his house, he gave me money for taxi fare, but now i know how to drive to his house and he still gives me money). and we do have sex every time we meet. he put money on the nightstand sometimes even before i arrived. and everytime we meet we have A LOT of sex. that's almost the only thing we do because it takes so long so it takes away the time we do other things like talking. He also told me he visited many prostitutes in Asia(china, hongkong, singapore) where he used to work. i don't know how prostitutes work. he gave me money because i'm a student and not working right now. but he always calls me a ''whore'' during sex. should i feel bad about this? does he respect me or just want to take care of me? i hate to ask money from my parents all the time since i can't find a job now. i'm an atheist, he is lutheran catholic i think. does religion matter? **i've asked this in the wrong section, the LGBT one, i think they think i'm a gay boy,but i'm a girl. basically i LOVE the sex we have, i just don't want to feel guilty or bad. thanks for you answering.
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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1 :
he prolly thinks you're a prostitue. that's why he's paying you
2 :
obviously he's not your BF otherwise you would know about his life. your ignorance is showing though in this troll-ish post.... there is no such thing as lutheran catholic AND he shouldn't be having sex before marriage if he was either so..... if you are paid after sex, it's prostitution.

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