I am a 23-year-old closeted gay man. Should I study in Australia or stay in Hong Kong?
I am a 23-year-old closeted gay man. I am orginally from Hong Kong. I have been an accounting student in an Australian university for 2 years. Looking back these 2 years, I have been struggling with my own sexuality and my accounting course. It has been a torture for me. I've found I am not an accounting material.Now, my university ask me to discontinue my course and I go back to Hong Kong. I wanna do a new degree course majoring in Italian and Spanish in Australia.(I've self-studied both language for 3 years and really enjoy the experience.Also I've collected Italian and Spanish music for 2 years.Love it) My parents say they will support me whether I do it in Australia or HK.However, I've got a feeling that they prefer me to do it in HK.But they don't mind if I do it in Australia. However, my parents are homophobic. After being in denial for 2 year, I've come out to all my Australian friends who are all gay-friendly. But not my parents yet since I'm afraid they'll cut off my sponsor 1 day ago Additional Details 1 day ago I compared degree courses in Australia and Hong Kong, I prefer the Australian one. I have a lot more friends in Australia. I have no friends here in Hong Kong , except living with homophobic mum and dad. In order to have a good social life for a gay man, should I stay in HK or go to Australia ?
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1 :
I would stay in Australia, it seems like your life would be a LOT better there.
2 :
Crikey, mate! Stay in the land down unda, study Italian and hook up with a hot lifeguard! Seriously, the time has come to take control of your life and do what's right for you. I'm 1/2 Japanese so I understand the whole "obligation to one's parents" thing but dude, you've got your OWN life. LIVE it! Ciao, Bello!
3 :
Whether your in Hong Kong or Australia you are still gonna be gay. It doesn't matter.
4 :
Sounds like you'll be happier in Australia to me. Try a pro/con list!
5 :
Go to Australia or San Francisco. Hong Kong may not be as liberal yet.
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